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You Will be Totally Tempted with These New Cupbeas
By Norman Winter – The Garden Guy
There will be a lot of temptation for gardeners in 2026, so many new plants are showing up at the garden center. Being the astute gardener you are, you probably can guess I am yanking your chain a little as I introduce you to the Totally Tempted cuphea series.
If you are a hummingbird lover you already know some cupheas. The Totally Tempted cupheas come in 4 color or varieties, Richly Red, Watermelon Wine, Frosted Violets and Vivid Violet. They have the potential of reaching 16-inches tall with an 18-inch spread.eas
They are known botanically as Cuphea procumbens with a common name creeping waxweed. Don’t let that name cause any concern. They are native to Southern Mexico and perennial in zones 9 and warmer. They are rock solid, tough and worth every penny as annuals in containers, whether you choose to design a mix or go solo. Your beds will also sizzle with a new artistic touch.
These caught the eye of my good friend, Dr. Allen Owings while at the Young’s Plant Farm Annual Garden Tour in Auburn AL. Allen, formerly a Horticulture Professor at LSU AgCenter is now Horticulturist for Clegg’s Nursery and Bracy’s Nursery. So when he posted the photos on Facebook they caught my attention.
Kim Smith Owner of Smiths Country Gardens in Taylorsville Indiana also went to Facebook. With her trials. She said the violet purple, blush rimmed blooms make it easy to fall in love with Totally Tempted Frosted Violets. Her antique looking urn was filled to overflowing with just Frosted Violets.
She says they are self-cleaning with a continuous blooming habit. She says her zone 5 climate dictates growing as an annual. She recommends plenty of sunlight to keep it from stretching. She went on to say trimming off a little in late July or August can help promote new growth if needed. Kim, feeds weekly with water soluble fertilizer.
Neighbor Dave and his bride Cynthia created a stunning combination in a rectangular concrete planter. They used both Totally Tempted Richly Red and Watermelon Wine with Augusta Lavender heliotrope and Virtuoso Dayglo Yellow dahlia. It is easy for The Garden Guy to peek over the fence and admire.
Son James and the Eden Estate Management team used Totally Tempted Vivid Violet in a window box with Virtuoso Vibrant Violet dahlias. And Supertunia Mini Vista Yellow petunias for a dash of contrasting color.
The Garden Guy went with the Totally Tempted red selections. In the front flower bed at the entrance I used Sunshine Blue II caryopteris with the chartreuse colored foliage. In the backyard I used both Richly Red and Watermelon Wine with the new ColorBlaze Mini Me Chartreuse coleus. In all plantings the flash of red and chartreuse dazzled with color.
Both son James and I found that cutting back kept the plants with a bushier habit. Like Kim Smith recommended, sunlight and frequent fertilization is mandatory. You will find that the Totally Tempted cupheas like others will bring in an assortment of bees, butterflies and hummingbirds. If you will check out Proven Winners Totally Tempted cupheas online you will find recipes for each color, further leading to ……you guessed it, the temptation for the 2025 new plants coming your way. Follow me on Facebook @NormanWinterTheGardenGuy for more photos and garden inspiration.
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‘Smores Brownies
By Lacey Vilhauer
Ingredients: Graham Cracker Crust • 1 cup pulverized graham crackers (about 6 graham crackers, blended or food processed) • 1/3 cup butter (melted) • 1/4 cup brown sugar Brownies • 12 Tbs butter • 1 cup brown sugar (lightly packed) • 3/4 cup white sugar • 4 eggs • 1 1/2 tsp vanilla • 1/4 cup flour • 1 cup cocoa powder • 1 cup milk chocolate chips Toppings • 4 Hershey’s Bars • 10-ounce bag of mini-marshmallows
Instructions: • Preheat oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit • Grease an 8×8 baking pan • Graham Cracker Crust • Pulverize graham crackers and stir in melted butter. Stir in brown sugar. Press into bottom of baking sheet and set aside.
Brownies In a heavy sauce pan melt butter and stir in white and brown sugars, stir over medium heat for about 1-2 minutes until sugar starts to dissolve. Remove from heat, add vanilla. Add eggs in one at a time and whisk them into the sugar butter mixture. Add flour and cocoa powder and stir together. Fold in chocolate chips. Pour brownie mixture over the top of graham cracker crust. Bake for 40 minutes. Remove from oven and turn oven to broil. Immediately put chocolate bars over the top and top them with mini-marshmallows (or cut up large marshmallows). Broil for one to two minutes (keep an eye on them so they don’t burn), remove once brown. Let cool.
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Pray in the Hallway
By Ada William
A few weeks ago in church, our preacher shared a line that has stayed with me ever since.
“If you’re wondering what door to walk through, pray in the hallway.”
He was quoting someone else, but I did not catch the original source. I did, however, catch the message.
Most of us have found ourselves standing in that hallway at one time or another. We know something is changing, but we do not know what comes next.
There may be several doors in front of us, and none of them are clearly marked. We ask God to show us which one to open, but the answer does not always come as quickly as we would like.
Waiting is hard. People who live and work in rural communities understand waiting better than most. Farming, ranching and caring for animals require patience. You can prepare the ground, plant the seed and pray for rain, but you cannot force a crop to grow overnight. You can breed the best mare to the best stallion, provide good feed and proper care, and still wait nearly a year to see the foal. You can put up hay, repair fences and prepare barns, but you cannot control what kind of winter is coming.
There is a great deal of faith involved in rural life.
You do your part, and then you wait.
Of course, waiting does not mean doing nothing. A farmer does not plant a field and then ignore it until harvest. There are weeds to control, equipment to maintain and weather forecasts to watch.
A rancher waiting for a calf crop still checks cattle, watches the condition of the cows and
makes sure the calving pasture is ready.
The waiting season has work of its own.
I think the same is true when we are waiting on God to show us what comes next. Praying in the hallway is not simply standing still and staring at the doors. It is using that time to draw closer to God, listen carefully and prepare ourselves for whatever He may ask us to do.
Sometimes I want an immediate answer. I want God to make the right door obvious, open it wide and place a large sign above it that says, “This way.”
That is not usually how it works.
Sometimes the hallway lasts
longer than we expected. A job opportunity does not come through. A relationship changes. A plan we felt certain about falls apart. A prayer appears to go unanswered.
It can be tempting to grab the nearest doorknob simply because we are tired of waiting.
Anyone who has worked cattle knows that pushing too hard at the wrong time usually creates more trouble. Cattle move better when the handler pays attention to pressure, timing and position. There are moments to step forward and moments to back away. Trying to force movement before the path is clear can scatter the whole herd.
I have had times in my own
life when I tried to force a door open because I was convinced it was the one I needed. Other times, I hesitated to step through a door because it was not the one I had pictured.
Looking back, I can see that some closed doors were protection. Some delays were preparation. Some unanswered prayers were answered differently than I expected.
That does not mean waiting becomes easy. It simply means the hallway is not wasted space.
The hallway may be where God changes our plans. It may be where He strengthens our faith, corrects our attitude or teaches us to depend on Him instead of our own understanding.
It may be where we finally become quiet enough to hear what He has been saying all along.
Rural life teaches us that there is a season for everything. There is a time to plant and a time to harvest. There is a time to mend fence and a time to move cattle. There is a time to work, a time to wait and a time to trust that what we cannot see is still being handled.
When the right door opens, we may understand why the others remained closed. We may also never fully understand, at least not in this life.
Either way, we can trust the One who sees beyond the hallway.
So, when I find myself unsure of what comes next, I hope I remember the words I heard that Sunday morning.
I may not know which door to walk through.
I may not know when it will open.
But I know what I can do while I wait.
I can pray in the hallway.
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Canning 101
By NTFR Staff
Every summer it seems to happen. The garden suddenly produces more tomatoes, cucumbers and green beans than anyone could possibly eat, and before long the question comes up: “Maybe I should learn to can.”
For many families, canning is a tradition that has been passed down for generations. For others, it’s a new hobby that offers the satisfaction of stocking pantry shelves with homegrown food. Either way, getting started can feel overwhelming. Pressure canners, boiling water baths, jars, lids, processing times and safety recommendations are enough to make anyone wonder where to begin.
The good news is that home canning isn’t difficult once you understand the basics.
The first thing to know is that canning is simply the process of preserving food in sealed jars by heating them to destroy microorganisms and create a vacuum seal. There are only two USDA- approved methods for home canning: boiling water bath canning and pressure canning. Which one you use depends entirely on what you’re preserving.
A boiling water bath is exactly what it sounds like. Filled jars are completely submerged in boiling water and processed for a specific amount of time. Because boiling water only reaches 212 degrees Fahrenheit at sea level, this method is safe only for foods that are naturally high in acid or have enough added acid to prevent dangerous bacteria from growing.
That makes water bath canning perfect for jams, jellies, fruit preserves, pickles, chutneys, fruit butters and many tomato products that have the proper amount of bottled lemon
juice or citric acid added according to a tested recipe.
Pressure canning works differently. By trapping steam inside a sealed canner, the temperature climbs well above the boiling point of water, reaching approximately 240 degrees. That higher temperature is necessary to destroy Clostridium botulinum spores, which can survive ordinary boiling and produce
the toxin that causes botulism.
Because of that, low-acid foods such as green beans, corn, carrots, potatoes, meats, poultry, seafood and soups must be pressure canned. Using a boiling water bath for these foods simply isn’t safe, regardless of how long the jars are boiled.
So which method is best for someone just getting started?
For most beginners, water
bath canning is the easiest place to begin. The equipment is less expensive, the process is more straightforward and recipes like strawberry jam or dill pickles are forgiving enough to build confidence. Many people who enjoy preserving fruit eventually decide to purchase a pressure canner once they want to preserve vegetables or homemade stock.
That doesn’t mean pressure canning should be intimidating. Modern pressure canners include multiple built-in safety features and are far different from the old stories many people heard about exploding canners decades ago. Like any
kitchen tool, they’re safe when used according to the manufacturer’s directions and with tested recipes.
No matter which method you choose, one rule never changes: always use recipes that have been scientifically tested. While
family recipes may taste wonderful when served fresh, they aren’t always safe for canning. Changing ingredient amounts, thickening soups with flour, adding extra vegetables or reducing vinegar can all affect the safety of the finished product. The USDA and the National Center for Home Food Preservation remain the gold standards for home canning recipes and processing recommendations.
It’s also important to remember that today’s recommendations aren’t necessarily the same ones your grandparents followed. Research has improved over the years, and food safety recommendations have changed with it. Methods like open-kettle canning, oven canning and sealing jars by simply turning them upside down are no longer considered safe for shelf-stable foods.
If you’ve never canned before,
don’t feel like you have to preserve an entire garden your first weekend. Start with one recipe. Learn how to prepare the jars, measure headspace, remove air bubbles and process them correctly. Once you hear that
satisfying “ping” as the lids seal, you’ll understand why so many people find canning rewarding.
There’s something special about opening a jar of peaches in January or serving homemade salsa long after the tomatoes are
gone. With a little knowledge, the right equipment and a commitment to following tested recipes, anyone can enjoy the satisfaction of preserving the harvest safely for months to come.
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