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When a City Girl Goes Country: Chasing Buckets

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By Annette Bridges

Are you a bucket chaser? Well, our cow, tagged number five, sure is. Bless her heart, she does not always get her fair share of cubes because she never stops following us in the Ranger where she knows the bucket of cubes should be. She will run past the cubes that are at her feet, never even seeing them.

The more I ponder our number five’s bucket chasing ways, the more I can relate. Indeed, I have spent years waiting for that time in the future where I would finally have everything I thought I needed to be happy. I, too, have missed opportunities to feel satisfied and content because I was so preoccupied with attaining my pie in the sky wishes. Perhaps chasing the bucket is akin to believing the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. That old delusion that keeps one fixated on looking everywhere but at what is right in front of you.

I am a big dreamer of a person who is always planning and making goals, so I am certainly not saying chasing dreams is a bad thing. Though, I can see nowadays how the constant pursuit of more or better can stop me from taking stock of all that I have and from appreciating what I do have. My mamma taught me long ago how gratitude could help me to see what is there rather than what is not. I have learned to stop chasing that dang ‘ole bucket long enough to register the fact that I already have a bounty to relish, enjoy and be grateful for.

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Old Man in the Mirror

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By Bryce

He kicked the goose down blanket to the cold and wood planked floor.
You could see his breath as he was headed for the bathroom door.
He tiptoed down the hall. His feet were bare, in need of socks. And wished that he’d at least tried on his Christmas present Crocks.
His gout caused him to stumble, bumped a cracked and aging mirror. The cowboy’s true reflection forced an old man to appear.
The cowboy hesitated. Both hands were aged and shook. But he stretched and straightened out the mirror. This time he dared a look.
His face was worn and wrinkled, gray hair knotted on his head. Eyebrows kinked and twisted showed a hint of younger red.
The wrinkles in his face proved years of riding in the sun, and maybe too much bourbon from his younger days of fun.
The cowboy quizzed the old man, “Are you sure you’re really me?” The old goat in the mirror replied, “You don’t like what you see?”
“You’ve walked past me a thousand times and never shot a glance. Your gaze into the mirror today is more than happenstance.”

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Lessons from a Pit Bull

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By Dal Houston

I have always liked dogs. Well, to say I have always really loved dogs would be more truthful – especially mutts or dogs from the pound. Until recent years, the only dogs I really did not like were pit bulls. It seemed like every other day there would be a news story about a pit bull mauling some child or elderly person, and in some cases, killing them. After hearing these stories, I often wondered why someone would want such a dangerous dog. I even remember hearing about some wanting to ban pit bulls from their communities, and at one time, I thought that may not be a bad idea.

I do not think I had ever had an encounter with a pit bull, nor did I know anyone who did, that caused this negative opinion, rather it was what I heard about the breed from others that turned me against them. Then, about eight years ago, while looking for cattle along the river, a pit bull pup, likely having been dumped, came out of the brush. Had it been a dog of any other breed, I would have had no qualms about approaching it, but I saw that thick, wide head, and all I could think was that I had better be careful because it was probably a dangerous dog. The pup was scared and standoffish, but after a while, we finally approached each other. This was the beginning of a wonderful relationship, and, as I have recently learned, a dramatic eye-opening life lesson.

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When a City Girl Goes Country

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By Annette Bridges

My country boy and I are in our fifth decade together, and that sounds like forever when I write it. I am thankful for our many years together, but these days I wish I could shake the feeling of time as fleeting. I am doing my best, however, to accept the progression of time as part of the miracle of life and focus on living each and every moment to its fullest potential.

Our past decade has been one of many changes, but maybe all decades are like that. Some
changes we want, some we do not. Some we create ourselves, some when we have no choice other than to accept them as part of life. I admit I have not been super happy with myself in recent years. I am carrying the extra pounds I promised myself I would not gain back. I still struggle with sadness and regret so deep that at times takes my breath away.

To read more, pick up a copy of the July issue of NTFR magazine. To subscribe by mail, call 940-872-5922.

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